While my own father is not cruel and abusive he still manages to be a cunt. Basically he shut me out of his side of the family about 12 years ago for no reason. And I cannot stress enough that there is NO reason. He's been challenged by various people and just clams up, refusing to talk about it.
As a result I did not see my sister or various cousins for a long, long time. Since I moved around a bit they had no idea where I lived. I had no idea where they lived. Wiped the smile of the fuckers face when I found my sister and cousins on Facebook and made everything right with them. Now, apparently, he thinks i've won or some bollocks like that.
Despite my writing to him over the years the twat told my sister he had no idea where I was. I missed her wedding. My cousin's wedding. All these years he did know where I was and had my contact details. Made him look a right knob when I was able to tell them the truth.